The Art of Nurturing.

As you can see from my Instragram posts, my Nadyas and I super love art & craft.

I have grown up loving art the most in school. I remember always doing well for it. Not that I want to brag about it or anything but I guess I have to mention it for the purpose of this entry. I remember my art pieces always being displayed in school. I remember going up the stage as the winner for several art competitions in school. I remember always scoring almost full points for art examinations. I remember my favourite Malay teacher in secondary school, Cikgu Taha, always putting me in charge of the bulletin board for his classroom. I remember sending in dedications to Kate Reyes who was with 98.7 FM during my teenage days, and winning “Letter of the Day.”

Such fond & beautiful memories.  

I attribute all those fond memories I have till now to my mum who discovered my love for art early. She nurtured and encouraged me, instead of forcing me to perform master pieces each time in school. It was always a pleasure showing Mak my final art pieces because she would always be so proud of all of them, and would even display them in the living room. Sometimes, they might not be that perfect to me but Mak was still proud of them nevertheless. Hehehe.

My point is, if your child has a natural talent for art, nurture without forcing. Once there is a force factor, it might just cause your child to burn out and subsequently, hate anything to do with art.

And phew! I am just thankful that my Nadyas and my husband love art as much as I do. Oh yes, Tatek is really good in art, you know? I think he can draw better than me!

Like mummy, like daddy, like daughters.

Such a perfect family. :D

At home, we do art each time the girls get bored. Inside the girls’ cupboard, I actually have separated their art materials into different categories – coloured pencils, crayons, markers, paint, and the miscellaneous art & craft materials. So each time they need to use a certain media, they know which box to take out without asking.

Once your child has enough art materials, it’s easy from there – just allow him/her to doodle or dabble and let his/her imagination to run wild. Normally, I will also sit down with my Nadyas, draw something as well, and spend quality time with them along the way.

And if you are like me, there is also one more thing you can do – engage your child in as many art activities and enrichment classes as possible. The Nadyas have been attending art enrichment classes weekly but hey, there can never be an overdosage of art!

For the upcoming June holidays, we will be going to WowART Learning Studio for their School Holiday Workshops!

Just look at the various school holiday workshops which WowART will be organizing! Ooops! Just realized that you are not able to view the different types of workshops and camps they will be organizing and I am not going to delete what I already typed. Hahahaha! So do email or contact them to find out more! Bluek!

There is really something for all kids from the ages of 2.5 years old to 12 years old! Truthfully, I am still confused as to which workshop to enroll the Nadyas in because they are all so tempting. Therefore, I am going to just let the girls decide.

What I like about WowART is how the class sizes are kept small regardless of the response. Like WowART, I too think that it is really important to keep the class size at its minimal when introducing art to children because each child should get the most out of his/her learning experience. The well trained instructors will also be able to nurture and encourage each child unconditionally. So art classes at WowART are really unlike art classes in community centres, if you really need me to compare.

Just look at the WowART piece by a 3.5 years old kid! (My twins’ age!)

And this WowART piece was done by a 5 years old kid! (Sharleez’s age!)

Impressive right?

Come on, join me and the Nadyas at WowART!

If you register before May 22 2012, you will enjoy 5% discount!

So call WowART now at 63522221 or visit their website HERE.

To end it off, I just have to put this WOW expressions made by my Nadyas.

 

“The artist is not a different kind of person, but every person is a different kind of artist.”

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Advertorial: Card Maison

Having a well-designed invitation card for your event does not necessarily mean you have to spend a lot on it. You just need the correct person to design it…and lots of good taste! Up till now, I still have people asking me about the Nadyas’ birthday invites and posters. Some of them even mentioned that it is just that difficult nowadays to find nicely designed invitation cards!

I couldn’t agree more.

So when Card Maison showed me their designs for wedding and birthday Invitations, I thought I should really share them with you! Their designs really left me quite flabbergasted, and I can bet they will blow you away too. :)

Super gorgeous, right? I especially like the last design in purple!

Card Maison design, customize and print the following:

  • Invitations (Weddings / Birthday/ Corporate Events)
  • Posters (various sizes)
  • Stickers
  • Thank you tags
  • Namecard Designs
  • Flyers

And just for my 1st ten blog readers,  you will enjoy the following!

 

Do not forget to quote ETRANGLE!

You can contact Card Maison through:
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Email: the.card.maison@gmail.com

“Everything is designed. Few things are designed well.” 

Therefore, do check Card Maison out. :)

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Oh Mother!

Being a mother can be the most challenging job you have ever done. There are days that make you wonder if you are good enough or if you are doing your best. There are days when you doubt that you measure up. There are days when you feel like your work is hardly noticed. There are days when you feel like you do not spend enough time with your kids. And then, there are days when you just feel like breaking down.

That’s why we need Mother’s Day.

Or at least I think so.

Sure, every day is Mother’s Day to some but how often do we really get to show that we care and appreciate? Everyday without fail? Not me, I know I do not do that everyday. Even though my mother is staying together with me and I see her like 24/7 each day, there are days when we do not even get to spend time together or talk that much with each other. I doubt she knows how much I really appreciate her or how much I truly love her despite it all, as a result. Sometimes, I take it for granted that my mum will always be there no matter what. Most of the time, I forget to pause and appreciate her.

So don’t you think all mothers in the world deserve a day at least to make them feel extra special? A day that they will look forward to? A day that their children will reserve just for them without fail no matter how busy they can get? That day can be Mother’s Day which falls on May 13, or it can also be any day at all. Of course, I often choose to celebrate Mother’s Day on the actual day itself for convenience sake. Whatever it is, I want to celebrate Mother’s Day with my children and my Mak! <3

GOSH, WHAT WOULD I BE WITHOUT MY MOTHER?

It is impossible to count every single deed Mak has made to let me and my siblings live better. She has been sacrificing day in and day out for us wholeheartedly, without waiting for something in return. This is priceless care, and a gift to us. She has never failed to stop praying for the goodness of our life, and what comes after. She cherishes all of us so much, even more than her own life.

And how fortunate my children really are to have her as their Nana. She ensures they are well-taken care of every day. Sometimes, I cannot help but to feel that she is a better mother to my girls than I am. I have so much more to learn, and but with Mak as my teacher, I know I will only get better as a mother.

It’s a nice feeling though that my girls think I am the best mummy around.  Of course I am the best to them, they have only one mummy. At this tender age, who else can they compare me to except err..me again? Hahaha! Then, when they are bigger, they will start comparing me to other mummies. And that’s when I will tell them to STOP COMPARING because the feeling is not so nice anymore! :D

I am really thankful to have Sharleez Nadya, Mysha Nadya and Myreen Nadya in my life. It is through them that I have a better understanding of my strengths and weaknesses, not to mention how much I can actually accomplish if I try. After all, the key to being a good parent is the process of trying and making sacrifices, along with the willingness to compromise. Believe me, I have learnt to compromise a great deal! You see, before I had my Nadyas, I was a little self-absorbed. I used to value each situation given only for what was in it for me. But now, everything is for the family. Everything is for my girls. And then, whatever that’s left (if any) is for me. That makes me very content.

As you can see, my life is all about my three girls. <3

But of course we have our bad days too. As much as I would love to call them angels, they are really just normal kids at the end of the day.

My girls sometimes challenge me in ways I can never imagine. They sometimes push me to the edge of tolerance. They deny me of things that I hold so dear, like time for myself. They force me to step out of my comfort zone. They make me do things that I thought I would/could never do.

But that is really the odyssey of mummyhood, isn’t it?

I rarely take things for granted now, and I will still continue to celebrate the simple things in life. These simple things in life make me the happiest and I look forward to them.

And when I get too immersed in the daily grind, I need to be constantly reminded of those simple things in life.

I know I can count on my children for that.

So thank you my beloved daughters for these beautiful gifts. (And thank you dear teachers too!)

I almost teared when I saw you girls rushing to me with these the moment I fetched you from school today.

As cliche as it may sound, it’s the little things that matter. Not fanciful gifts or money.

Now that I am already a mother myself, I know how true it really is.

Thank you Mak, if I have never said so recently. You know that no matter what, you will always be the person I cherish, respect and treasure for as long as I live because there can only be one YOU.

Happy Mother’ Day, Mak!

Happy Mother’s Day to Mak In Law!

Happy Mother’s Day to me!

Happy Mother’s Day to Nurul!

Happy Mother’s Day, mummies!

All of us deserve this day especially, and every other day too. :)

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Advertorial: A Bonus to Save.

Some people dream about winning the lottery in hope that they will win big bucks one day. Some people choose to invest their money so that the amount of money they have will multiply. Others just do not bother or try because they think that they can never save or be rich.

But there are also some like you and me who believe in just saving our money for rainy days.

Saving means putting aside a certain amount on a monthly basis, preferably from every paycheck. If you are unsure how much to save and where your money goes to monthly, keep track of it for a month and then look to see what was an unnecessary expense. The unnecessary expense should be the amount you save each month. Agree?

Save 1.88% p.a on your current account!

Do you know that you are being paid 0% on your current account? Yup yup. But instead of earning 0% interest in your current account, you can now save up to 1.88% p.a*! You really can, with Bonus$aver! All you need to do is charge a minimum of S$500 to your Bonus$aver debit or credit card each month. There is no lock-in period unlike fixed deposits and yet it offers a higher interest rate!

What does this really mean?

Let’s participate in the following poll!

 

View the results, go on! Something to ponder about, isn’t it?

Look at the following scenarios because it can happen to anyone of us anytime. Let’s take the best case scenario and assume that you save at least 15% every month.

Scenario 1

Earn $5,000 a month and save 15%

Savings in 1 year: $5,000 x 15% x 12 = $9,000

Total interest per annum:

Other bank accounts: $9,000 x 0.05% = $4.50

Bonus$aver account: $9,000 x 1.88% = $169.20

Assessing the 2 outcomes, which would you rather? It is a no brainer! Between a plate of Nasi Padang versus a 2-way ticket to Bali at the end of the year, I would definitely pick the latter.

 

Scenario 2

Earn $2,000 a month and save 15%

Savings in 1 year: $2,000 x 15% x 12 = $3,600

Total interest per annum:

Other bank accounts: $3,600x 0.05% = $1.80

Bonus$aver account: $3,600x 1.88% = $67.68

Even with a more modest income, you can see the huge difference that the Bonus$aver makes! The lower interest rate only gets you a mere can of coke, but the Bonus$aver pays for a family outing to the movies! Now which would you prefer?

I mean, if you are saving for a vacation for yourself or your family, then why not do it with Bonus$aver? You will definitely be able to save up the desired amount faster, all thanks to the 1.88% offered by Standard Chartered.

And you know what I am thinking of right now? I am thinking of saving up for another round of HK Disneyland next year with Bonus$aver!

To do that, I am planning to save about $500 a month for a year to make up $6,000 for the trip.

 Total interest per annum:

Other bank accounts: $6,000x 0.05% = $3.00

Bonus$aver account: $6,000x 1.88% = $112.80

I get to save an additional $112.80 on top of the $6,000 with Bonus$aver! I can do so much with that extra $112.80 like maybe get a hotel room upgrade. But what can I do with the extra $3 if I were to save $6,000 in other bank accounts? It is barely enough for 2 cans of coke, I bet!

So do you get what I mean? Hehehe.

 What will you get?

 Sign up for the Bonus$aver now and you will receive:

  1. Bonus$aver debit card & cheque book
  2. Bonus$aver credit card issued for qualifying customers
  3. Access to over 100 ATMs on ATM network
  4. Access to NETS – the only foreign bank in Singapore with this access

No current account offers a credit card but because Standard Chartered is bundling, they are able to reward you for your credit card spend with high interest rates. How awesome is that?

Launch Special!

 

From now till 31 July 2012, S$100 Cashback will be credited to your Bonus$aver credit card with deposit of any amount upon account opening.

 Visit HERE for more details!

So my friend, at the end of the day, it is important to save. And it is all the more important to choose which bank to save with to earn that EXTRA money.

“Money, even if it does not bring you happiness, will at least help you be miserable in comfort.”

I am just glad I have started my girls early on the importance of saving money. At least they know that they need to keep enough money before they can go to Movie World once again.

So save. Whatever it takes, whatever the amount.

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Let’s Get Intimate.

*Updated on 13 May 2012 with new dates*

Gosh. Finally a breather.

Nurul and I have been so actively engaged with the Intimate Tea Party which we have been raving about for the past few weeks. Can you believe it, our weekends have been spent by having tea parties with our close friends, new friends, and blog readers? Nurul especially has been working so hard for this because she truly has confidence in this and she wants to prove to everyone that the Malay community can make it.. by working harder and not staying put in our comfort zone.

I totally agree.

And we are really so thankful for the overwhelming response this far!

So just in case if you are still wondering…

YES WE ARE STILL RECRUITING!

Aren’t you just wondering what this is all about? Aren’t you itching and scratching to know what it is? Well, go wash those hands and email us straight for a tea party! :) Of course, there is more to it than meets the eye because this business that we want to share with all of you is definitely much more interesting and tempting than it seems. Like what I have been telling the rest, we have to meet you up close and personal because it will be such an eye-popping revelation!

No kidding.

Do you seriously think I would waste time blogging about this for the second time if it is not worth my time? Hehehe.

Think about it.

Meanwhile, we have some new ‘colleagues’. Welcome, welcome! Want to know who?

You might just  recognize some of them!

This is Syarif Sleeq & his beautiful fiancée, Malak! I prefer to call her Snow White because she is as white as snow. The moment they both heard Nurul telling them about the business plan, they went “Count me in!” Look at Myreen in this picture. She was simply starstruck, I guess. Or maybe she was just scared of him. Anak Metropolitan, what! :D

This is the gorgeous Adlina Anis, a reputable stylist/model, and her hubby, Zayed. He looks familiar huh? Well, you might have seen him around at Badoque Cafe. His brother owns the very famous Badoque Cafe! Zayed totally impressed us the first time we met him because he is such a smart guy, especially in the area of IT. I call him an IT genius but Adlina prefers to just call him an IT geek. And to have someone as careful and skeptical as him joining us is indeed something huge. To have both of them joining us is a bonus. :) Such a lovely and hardworking couple.

Next to Adlina is my darling Indriana from Pink Elephant Labs. Yes yes, she is one of my favorite photographers in the whole w i d e world! And that sweet lady next to her is Suhaila, yet another passionate photographer from July Photography. I have yet to work with her but I have seen her work. Very impressive!

You know, I like how professionals from different fields are coming to join us. It just makes the business all the more  C O L O U R F U L

And this super adorable lady below is Hani (Diva), my ‘colleague’ and a new friend. She is one funny woman, I tell you. She is such a nice person, it is almost impossible to not adore her the first time you meet her. I really hope she can join us in our future tea parties. Hehehe. Hani, you want fishball? :D

We will be conducting more tea parties for YOU because we really want to make this big. We want everyone in the Malay community especially to come together and be united as ONE. To those of you especially who have been wishing for the longer time to stay at home with your kids and earn (more) money at the same time, then you should really consider joining us for our Tea Party cum sharing session.  The number of people joining us just keeps increasing by the day! And we are so thankful because we believe so much in this. :)

Here are our Tea Party sessions for the week beginning 6 May 2012. (I will keep updating this part every week, so if you cannot make it for this week’s sessions, keep checking this part of the entry for the upcoming Tea Party sessions.)

Friday, 18 May 2012 at 7.30 pm

Saturday, 19 May 2012 at 6 pm

If you want to join us, just drop us an email at askstudiofrost@gmail.com with the number of people coming! Yes, there will be finger food for everyone..AND STUDIOFROST GIFT VOUCHERS TOO!

 

No need to think so hard…

It’s just tea… & good food! :D

AND THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MLM, LADIES & GENTLEMEN. 

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